Personal Well-being: We All Have a Responsibility to Look After Our Personal Well-being

In an increasingly complex and demanding world, personal well-being has become a fundamental pillar of a balanced and fulfilling life. Personal well-being encompasses our emotional, psychological and social health, shaping how we think, feel and behave in everyday situations. According to the World Health Organization (2023), mental health is not merely the absence of illness but a state in which individuals realise their abilities, cope with normal stresses, work productively and contribute to their communities.

While external circumstances influence our wellbeing, research consistently demonstrates that individual choices, habits and coping strategies play a decisive role (Diener, Oishi and Tay, 2018). Therefore, each person holds a degree of responsibility for nurturing their own wellbeing through intentional action and self-awareness.

1.0 Personal Well-being Strategies

1.1 Connecting: The Power of Relationships

Human beings are inherently social. The importance of social connection is deeply rooted in psychological theory. Baumeister and Leary (1995) proposed the “need to belong” as a fundamental human motivation. Strong, supportive relationships are associated with reduced anxiety, enhanced self-esteem and increased longevity (Holt-Lunstad et al., 2010).

It is not the number of connections but the quality of relationships that matters most. Meaningful conversations, shared experiences and emotional support foster resilience. For example, individuals who regularly confide in trusted friends during stressful periods often recover more quickly from emotional setbacks.

Social connection also buffers the physiological effects of stress. Cohen and Wills (1985) demonstrated that social support mitigates the harmful effects of stress on mental health. Whether through family bonds, friendships or professional networks, investing in relationships strengthens overall wellbeing.

1.2 Being Active: Movement for Mind and Body

Regular physical activity is strongly associated with improved mental health outcomes. Exercise stimulates the release of endorphins, dopamine and serotonin, neurotransmitters that enhance mood and reduce perceived stress (Ratey and Hagerman, 2008).

The World Health Organization (2023) recommends at least 150 minutes of moderate physical activity per week. Even modest activities—such as brisk walking, cycling or gardening—have been shown to alleviate symptoms of depression and anxiety (Schuch et al., 2016).

Physical movement also reduces cortisol, the body’s primary stress hormone (McEwen, 2007). Outdoor exercise provides additional benefits through exposure to natural environments, which have been linked to improved concentration and reduced rumination (Bratman et al., 2015).

Consistency is key. Integrating movement into daily routines—taking the stairs, walking during lunch breaks or practising yoga—contributes to sustainable wellbeing.

1.3 Taking Notice: Cultivating Mindfulness

In a culture characterised by constant distraction, the ability to take notice of present experiences is invaluable. Mindfulness, defined as purposeful, non-judgemental awareness of the present moment, enhances emotional regulation and reduces stress (Kabat-Zinn, 1994).

Mindfulness-based interventions have demonstrated effectiveness in reducing anxiety and improving psychological resilience (Khoury et al., 2013). By observing thoughts without immediate reaction, individuals develop greater cognitive flexibility and emotional balance.

Taking notice may involve simple acts: appreciating a sunrise, listening attentively during a conversation, or savouring a meal. These practices foster gratitude and deepen life satisfaction.

1.4 Continuous Learning: Stimulating Growth and Purpose

Engaging in lifelong learning supports cognitive vitality and self-efficacy. Educational engagement stimulates neural plasticity and protects against cognitive decline (Park and Bischof, 2013).

Learning new skills—such as a language, musical instrument or creative craft—enhances problem-solving abilities and fosters a sense of accomplishment. According to Ryff and Singer (2008), having purpose and personal growth are core dimensions of psychological wellbeing.

For example, an adult enrolling in an evening course may experience increased confidence and renewed motivation, positively influencing other areas of life.

1.5 Giving: The Psychology of Altruism

Acts of kindness and generosity significantly enhance personal wellbeing. Research shows that prosocial behaviour increases positive affect and life satisfaction (Aknin et al., 2013).

Volunteering, offering emotional support or contributing to community initiatives fosters a sense of belonging and purpose. Giving activates neural reward systems, reinforcing feelings of fulfilment (Moll et al., 2006).

Engaging in altruistic activities also broadens perspective, encouraging gratitude and empathy.

2.0 Managing Mental Well-being at Work

Given the substantial time spent in professional environments, workplace wellbeing is essential. Chronic occupational stress can lead to burnout, characterised by emotional exhaustion and reduced efficacy (Maslach and Leiter, 2016).

2.1 Taking Breaks

Short, regular breaks enhance productivity and cognitive performance. Research indicates that periodic rest improves attention and reduces fatigue (Trougakos and Hideg, 2009). Stepping outdoors or engaging in light movement during breaks can refresh mental focus.

2.2 Open Communication

Suppressing emotional concerns may exacerbate stress. Encouraging open dialogue within organisations promotes psychological safety and reduces stigma surrounding mental health (NICE, 2022). Seeking support from managers or occupational health services demonstrates proactive coping.

2.3 Celebrating Achievement

Recognising accomplishments reinforces intrinsic motivation and self-worth. Positive feedback enhances morale and strengthens workplace engagement (Ryan and Deci, 2017).

2.4 Work-Life Balance

Maintaining boundaries between professional and personal life is fundamental to preventing burnout. Overcommitment and prolonged overtime increase stress and diminish overall wellbeing (Maslach and Leiter, 2016). Establishing clear limits protects mental energy and supports sustainable productivity.

2.5 Accessing In-House Support

Many organisations provide counselling services, employee assistance programmes and wellbeing initiatives. Utilising these resources reflects responsible self-care and promotes collective wellbeing.

3.0 Personal Responsibility and Collective Impact

While societal structures and workplace policies influence wellbeing, individuals retain responsibility for cultivating adaptive habits. This includes:

  • Prioritising healthy routines
  • Seeking help when necessary
  • Maintaining meaningful relationships
  • Engaging in reflective practices

Personal wellbeing is not static but dynamic, requiring ongoing attention and adaptation.

Personal well-being is a multidimensional construct encompassing emotional, psychological and social health. Evidence from psychological and medical research underscores the importance of connection, physical activity, mindfulness, continuous learning and altruism in promoting resilience and life satisfaction.

Moreover, proactive management of workplace wellbeing—through breaks, communication and boundary-setting—further supports mental health. By taking responsibility for personal wellbeing, individuals not only enhance their own quality of life but also contribute positively to families, communities and professional environments.

Cultivating wellbeing is an ongoing journey—one that requires awareness, commitment and compassion towards oneself and others.

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